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 To: Nada, Raja, Rawia, Bayan, Tumadir, Isharaga and .....
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Dear Nada, Raja, Rawia, Dr. Najat, Isharaga , Tumadir AND all the Visitors,
I have read your texts and your comments in the Nada’s post and I have decided to contribute by these words since I have already given my comments in the main post, Tumadir even though I didn’t see your signature in that post, but I think you deserve a special and warm hug.
First of all let me give you big hug, I'm really fascinated by your individuals experience as well as I'm impressed by the experiments of many ladies from my gray land.
Still I have big question rotating in my mind; who said that the set of the ethics or moral has something to do with the prostitution; I believe this has many things to do with the Arabian mentality if we know that the Arab used to kill their daughters because they think that the woman is approach of sort of social scandal. The only thing that the Arab change after Islam is that they accept the survival of the woman, but they consider her as the door from which the devil will get in; how shame is that.
The way I see things is still the woman is killed, even worst than the Arab killing, it is the social oppressions that has many faces, what is said in this board by some members, and what is being in discussions in other places, mosques through the theology of the Aziz husband and Youif and through many stories about a man who can go to heaven if he manages to control him self while a woman (the devil) is seducing him, this what thy are trying to tell us as the final truth, She is also oppressed by other fundamental constitution.
My surprise is that many people pass across such things as if it is normal, even though some women are already became brainwashed.
It is known that the prostitution (paid #######) is one of the ancient phenomenons that humanity knew along time ago, it is one of the worst things that humanity has developed through centuries because of the horrible humiliation that the humanity of the woman will be subjected to.
There is another phenomenon that our societies (mainly in the middle of the Sudan) are facing in the current time, there is something you can call illegal prostitution or going around for joy, or just release oneself from frustration and disappointment, or may be there is people who have better data than myself in this field so that they can have better analysis than I'm. We do have such phenomenon within the societies of the universities students in Sudan and precisely in Khartoum (by the way I have two sisters who are students in universities) and it is wide spread behavior, I have friend who came to Asmara few months back and as any ordinary Sudanese guy he thought that Asmara would be as it is in his imagination, he was surprised and he told me is there any Sharia laws in Asmara, this when you compare Asmara with Khartoum to day.
Therefore I think there is a methodological problem when many people approaching the issue of the women behavior either in Sudan or in the Diaspora, it is not like what many people who have rationalization mentality when they say; the Sudanese man is always brave and he doesn’t like to see any Sudanese girl in such bad thing, it is a human issue has nothing to do with nationality, I wander no body makes relations between thousands of the Sudanese guys who are involving in the Mafia business in Syria, Lebanon, Iraq, Turkey, and even Cairo, is isn’t it immoral to be drug dealer or a forger or thief like many thieves who build big buildings in Khartoum; what does that mean to just forget every thing related to ethics and write only about few Sudanese girls who decided to be prostitutes, even if they are students or doctors, it is their choice and this is apart of the natural law and it will be a phenomenon that has its origin in the movement of our societies.
I think we need to stop the reasons that pushed those natural born girls to choose to be so as well as we need to stop the reasons for those well raised guys to be drug dealers and forgers, for those who live in Damascus you can check what I said in the Elbasha restaurant, in Asmara we have seen tens of the Sudanese who used to come in the name of business men and after days you heard that they cheated the Eritrea business men and ran way.
It is problem of nations, of the whole country and it can not be solved by giving the words of blessings or insults through the mentality of two standards - Halal- Haram, this doesn't work, what would work is how all Sudanese can have the right to live in their country with all dignity and respect and when they decide to go abroad they can be proud to carry a Sudanese passport, not like many of us who always hesitate to pass in front of many embassies because it is enough evidence that you have a terror intentions since you are carrying a Sudanese passport.
Let us think, Say and do what though and what we have said, then no one will come and complain about the behaviors of the Sudanese men and women. Go ahead blessed by your successful deeds, which will tell about you the coming generations.
Bakry Eljack
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Bakry Eljack
bayan
Raja
Tumadir
فيس بوك
تويتر
انستقرام
يوتيوب
بنتيريست