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Re: Soul Prostitution (Re: Muhib)
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Quote: Thanks for sharing this essay with us. I have some comments to make.
You have stated above the following.
Quote: I had no problem with accepting what he is saying , I had no problem with accepting that there are people in this world who thinks like this, but what drove me over the edge was the fact that I was telling my self to do just like what he is telling me to do , I was saying to myself that it's just 5 years and I'll finish collage and I'll no longer have to follow anyone's orders , and to listen to my own self saying so was a real shock to me. |
Well, I understood and sensed that you accepted what you were told as orders from your father. My question, was your father ordering you to do all the things he told you to ,or was he offering an ideology in how you should be acting with males? I thought that you could have spoken to your father as to voice your view in how your life should go. I think finishing school is a great thing to do, however , I wouldnt be please to know that you want to finish your school b/c there is a statement you want to make. The statement goes as the following " Father, it has been nice knowing you ,but now I have my freedom and I'm moving out to run my life the way I want. Father , Im able to do that ,b/c I have just finished school and I can get a job that can back me up " . the statement ends. I hope this is not your motive, if you disagree with your father, make things clear to him through talking them over and through a friendly conversation.
Last point! You have raised interesting issues and indeed all were well put and done throughout the lines of your essay. Im going to do more reading on it |
Well muhib I'm not trying to say that my father is a dictator and I'm not trying to say that he is forcing me to do things his way, no the truth he is a very understanding man, and we had always been different and it caused no problem for any of us. About the "it had been nice knowing you ..." thing, if i was the kind of people who could say so, then it wasn't going to be a trouble to wait until i finish collage with my dads money and then I'll say goodbye, but that was never the issue for me, what I want to see in my self is a person who holds on to her believe. I pay no respect for people who relate there mental freedom with there financial freedom, those are also selling there souls, they sell it to money, and if they are imagining that one day when they'll have enough they'll be free then they are so wrong, because when it's not money it will be community, the ruling regime, ore even just to keep breathing, they'll always have a reason to keep silence.
My motive is that I want to make of my self a person who can stand up for what she wants, a person who never bargains when it comes to her believes.
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Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-06-04, 01:57 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Muhib | 09-06-04, 04:49 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Muhib | 09-06-04, 05:11 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-07-04, 04:31 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-07-04, 04:27 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | أحمد الشايقي | 09-07-04, 04:40 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-07-04, 04:56 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Dia eldin khalil | 09-07-04, 06:41 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-07-04, 07:44 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Isaac | 09-07-04, 10:58 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-08-04, 05:38 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Elnasri Amin | 09-07-04, 11:17 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Muhib | 09-07-04, 01:16 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-07-04, 01:04 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | أحمد الشايقي | 09-07-04, 01:59 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-08-04, 05:41 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-08-04, 05:43 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-08-04, 05:47 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مراويد | 09-08-04, 08:22 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | إيمان أحمد | 09-08-04, 08:24 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-10-04, 12:49 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | أحمد الشايقي | 09-10-04, 11:39 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-11-04, 08:32 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-11-04, 11:41 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-13-04, 11:58 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-13-04, 12:05 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-14-04, 05:51 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-14-04, 06:27 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | إيمان أحمد | 09-14-04, 08:20 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Khalid Eltayeb | 09-15-04, 05:24 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-16-04, 10:33 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-16-04, 12:43 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-17-04, 10:02 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-18-04, 08:51 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | إيمان أحمد | 09-18-04, 09:16 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | طلال عفيفي | 09-19-04, 09:18 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-19-04, 01:15 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | طلال عفيفي | 09-20-04, 09:43 AM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | أحمد أمين | 09-20-04, 01:10 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-21-04, 12:10 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-20-04, 01:36 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-20-04, 03:17 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-21-04, 12:15 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-21-04, 02:01 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 09-22-04, 12:59 PM |
Re: Soul Prostitution | Adil Osman | 09-23-04, 08:37 AM |
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