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 Re: The Price of Honesty (Re: Abdel Aati)
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She first met Imad in early 1986, when she was working in the second democratic election campaign following the fall of Nimeri regime. Imad was working as a lecturer in one of the universities and was also a member of the same Democratic Party Kamilia belonged to. During their work together in the election campaign a relationship developed between them. She was attracted to his open mind and his way of thinking, and specially his views and support to women rights. He liked her independence and confidence, and particularly her beauty and her charming personality. They started to meet quiet often after the election campaign ended, talked for long hours about their lives, their dreams, and the situation in Sudan. Her fond and admiration for him started to grow everyday. She thought it was very rare to meet someone like him; a liberal man with a lot of respect and support for women-somehow she believed he was an exceptional person. When they talked about relationships she talked about her only love relationship, the man she loved before was a medical doctor and he ended the relationship when he decided to marry his relative.
She expressed to Imad how she thought men in general were selfish and hypocrites. They give themselves the full right to have s ex before marriage and judge women who do it. According to her this had nothing to do with Islam because the punishment in Islam did not discriminate in this regard between men and women-as any sexual act outside marriage is considered sinful for both. She thought many men do not care when they break the virginity of women, they do not question themselves (what will happen to those women? And how come I require my partner to be a virgin, when I myself did this with many women?).
She also thought women didn’t stand for their rights and in many cases took the easy route and turn into hypocrites; many women after loosing their virginity, they either go and stitch or tell a dishonest story about how they lost it. In her view this will perpetuate the existing culture of hypocrisy and dishonesty and the practice of female circumcision gives room for that. Imad supported her view and expressed how he valued her honesty. He said he was happy to meet her and showed his interest in developing a relationship with her and even he started to introduce her to his friends as his fiancé.
(عدل بواسطة Abdel Aati on 10-14-2004, 08:58 AM)
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| The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 08:52 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 08:53 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 08:55 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 08:56 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 08:58 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Kostawi | 10-14-04, 09:01 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Outcast | 10-14-04, 11:01 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 11:07 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 11:11 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 11:12 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Kabar | 10-14-04, 12:17 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 12:21 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 12:31 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Kostawi | 10-14-04, 01:16 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 01:43 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Outcast | 10-14-04, 01:21 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 02:52 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 02:54 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 02:56 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Kostawi | 10-14-04, 08:57 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-14-04, 10:57 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Outcast | 10-15-04, 06:50 AM |
 Re: The Price of Honesty | mohamed elshiekh | 10-19-04, 11:39 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | saadeldin abdelrahman | 10-19-04, 11:07 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | مزن ابوعبيدة النيل | 10-20-04, 08:43 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | mohamed elshiekh | 11-05-04, 02:29 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | saadeldin abdelrahman | 10-20-04, 11:13 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 10-22-04, 00:06 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 11-08-04, 04:34 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 11-08-04, 04:35 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 11-08-04, 04:37 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 11-08-04, 04:41 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | nour tawir | 11-09-04, 01:12 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 11-10-04, 02:37 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 12-14-04, 09:31 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 12-14-04, 09:32 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 12-14-04, 09:35 AM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 12-14-04, 09:42 AM |
 Re: The Price of Honesty | إيمان أحمد | 12-30-04, 09:54 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Outcast | 12-30-04, 10:00 PM |
 Re: The Price of Honesty | إيمان أحمد | 12-30-04, 10:13 PM |
| Re: The Price of Honesty | Abdel Aati | 12-31-04, 03:56 AM |
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