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 Re: القاعدين لها شنو ؟ مع الاعتذار لبكري (Re: Elmosley)
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Dear Yousif,
I am so happy to see your smiling face again, because it tells me that you are back. Have I understood you correctly? If not, please let me know.
Bakri called me yesterday, and he graciously told me how sad he feels about your, and your supporters', departure. I hope all of us now have learned our lessons on civilized and polite debate. I am very thankful that Dr. Mihaira has given us this wonderful opportunity to do so.
You have been a true educator, for all of us. We should all be thankful to you, including our sister Dr. Mihaira. I still recall how you were trying to convince me, in your home in Iowa City, how good you think she is. I did my best to see your point. But she let you down, as she did to all of us. I still think that she is a very smart person, but, for some awakward reason, she chose to attack us, the Republicans, without knowing much about what we say. I genuinely invite her to visit our web site to read our thoughts from their original sources, instead of consuming second-hand misconceptions about us.
I also ask brother Asasi to do the same, becuse he is very confused about what we say, and he takes other people's opinions, like Al-Azhar, Saudi Arabia, and Sudan so called 3ulama, about us as his own. This is wrong. We all need to form our OWN knowlege, through our OWN minds, and hearts. And we need to form genunie and original opinions, of our OWN, after we make fair comparision between ideas, people, and events. I hope both Dr. Mihaira and Asasi, would see this as very sincere advice. It is coming from an older brother and educator, who had been advising students older than both of them, for more than a decade and a half.
If you are not respects to us, your elders, you will never be respectful to anyone, in this vast and cruel world. We love and respect both of you as Sudanese, more you can imagine. But we have a duty toward both of you, and toward other members in this board, and other human beings at large. We need to uphold the vlues of our Sudanese people everywhere, especially in this beatuful house, the Free Forum of SudaneseOnline. I hope both sister Dr. Mihaira, and brother Asasi, know where we are coming from.
We want to see the best of you. And the best of you can never been in profanity and obscenity. These two very bad, and immoral, things are not what a true Sudanes would inject in any civilized exchange, let alone in this Free Forum. This forum is trying to be one of the most respected venues for builing a New Sudan. And it is improving day by day. We should not let ourselves down by unuseful bikkering and profane language.
The comments upon which you decided to leave ya Yousif were disresctful to all of us. Dr. Mihaira should apologize for having made them, if she truly cares about us, as we care about her. Anyone of us is prone to make mistakes, I hope she learned from her mistakes, as I always learn from mine. I know she is angry with me. Bakri communicted that to me!
From this post, I ask her to forgive me, if she thinks I did any harm to her. I don't think I need to apologize, but I definitley don't want her to feel that my comments on some of her postingS were meant to degrade her. On the contrary, all board members are invited to go back to the first comment I made about one of Dr. Mihaira's brief contributions. They will find that comment to be very telling of how I respected her as an intelligent person. I still do, but she injured this respect by the very profane words that she used in commenting on one of Al-Ustaz Mahmoud's essential thoughts about freedom and responsiblity.
She completely misunderstood and misappropriated what my dear FATHER Al-Ustaz Mahmoud said. You can't be happy when your father is misunderstood and mocked. I,again, invite her to read about us and our ideas from their original source at WWW.ALFIKRA.ORG. Then she may come back to discuss with us the content of AlFIKR ALJUMHOURI, if she chooses to do so. If she does, she will find us most understanding, and most accomodating for her genuine and honest differnce in opinion with us. We are very well known for bening very respectful of our opponents, as long as they are abiding by the rules of civilized debate.
Dr. Mihaira herself saw how Dr. Yasir treated her. She was very lucky to have someone like Dr. Yasir, a mediacal Dr. like her, with vast experience, in both medicine and life, to be her mentor and debator. She didn't respect him enough, and she didn't appreciate his time. What she did to all of us was throwing profane words at our faces. We don't deserve this ya Dr. Mihaira.
We deserve better, for we are also very gnuine in our "Sudanesness." That is why we were tough on you. We see you as a daughter, who needs to be respected, but rebuked when need be. I hope you understand where my own exchanges were coming from. If you don't, you probably don't deserve any more of my time. But if you do, you will get all the time you need from me, and from many others, to understand my FATHER and his thoughts better.
We should all communicate in good faith, and with full respect for those with whom we have genuine and honest differences of opinion. It is very natural to have differences in opinion, but it is utterly wrong to express those differences in the mannner some board members did. You had every right to leave ya Ustaz Yousif. And we have every right to believe that you are back now.
Thank you Wad Shamoog for touching the heart of our great artist in the artistic and very ethical way you did. I am delighted that Yousif is back, if I have understood his post correctly.
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Haydar Badawi Sadig
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