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 Re: The Self Development Corner......BELIEVE....NLP(4) (Re: Ibn Lutfi)
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Here is the second part.....enjoy it
Failure develops when you engage with failure conversation. When you drop remarks like "to tell you the truth, I didn't think it will work" or "Actually, I wasn't surprised that it didn't work out". The Okay-I will-give-it-a-try-but-I-don't-think-it-will-work attitude produces failures.
look at it this way. Belief is the thermostat that regulates what we accomplish in life. When you believes you worth little, you receives little. When thats keep hapenning, as time goes by, lack of belief start to control your subconcious mind. Unless you readjust your thermostat forward. Since others see in us what we see in ourselves, you will grow smaller in the estimation of the people round you.
Your mind is a "thought factory". It's producing countless thoughts in one day. Production in the factory is under the charge of two formen, one is called Mr Defeat (negative) and the other is Mr Triumph (positive).
Mr Defeat is a master of finding reasons why you shouldn't succeed.
Mr Triumph is a master of showing you ways to achieve great results.
Both guys are intensely aboedient, once you signal slightest mental beck-and-call they will show up. Try this example the next time. Tell yourself
" Today is a lousy day". This signal Mr Defeat into action and he manfuctures some facts to prove you are right. He suggests to you that it's too hot or too cold, business will be bad today, the lecture today is not an important one etc...Mr Defeat is tremendously effeciant. In just a few moments got you sold. It's a bad day. Before you know it, it's a heck of a bad day.
But when you tell yourself "today is a brilliant day". Mr Triumph is signaled forward to act. Thats why i did advise you in NLP 2 to say I am pretty fantastic when asked.
Now the more work you give either of these two men, the stronger he becomes. So you know what I am going to say next yeah. The only wise thing to do is to fire Mr Defeat. You don't need the bugger in your life. you don't need him around telling you YOU CAN'T. Mr Defeat won't help you get where you want to go, so boot him out NOW...NOW...NOW
I will stop here, and shall continue next time showing you HOW TO DEVELOP THE POWER OF BELIEF and how/where to use it for the prosperos time we are facing ahead.
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