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(((THE HEALING OF A BROKEN HEART)))
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Can't Let Go" (performed by mariah carey)
There you are Holding her hand I am lost Dying to understand Didn't I Cherish you right Don't you know You were my life
[Chorus:] Even though I try I can't let go Something in your eyes Captured my soul And every night I see you in my dreams You're all I know I can't let go
Just cast aside You don't even know I'm alive You just walk on by Don't care to see me cry And here I am Still holding on I can't accept My world is gone
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Do you even realize The sorrow I have inside Everyday of my life Do you know the way it feels When all you have just dies I try and try To deny that I need you But still you remain on my mind
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No I just can't get you out of my mind I never can say goodbye 'Cause every night I see you in my dreams You're all I know I can't let you go Even though I try I can't let go of something that I need so badly You're all I know I can't let go
(((THE HEALING OF A BROKEN HEART)))
Step One:
Allow yourself time to heal, and know that you can heal. Whether the loss is due to death, rejection, or other reason. It is normal to grieve over a loss of a love for any reason. It usually takes two to three years for a couple whose relationship has broken up to begin to put their lives back together again. It sometimes takes five years for individuals and families to get over the emotional pain and trauma. Many people can have serious health and emotional problems during this time.
Step Two:
Realize that you still can find happiness. Realize that you can control how you think, what you think about, and how much. A key is to concentrate on the positives you have in the present. Not thinking about the future or past. Healing Helpers
Being around people and getting involved in helping others is a good way to accelerate the proces of healing. Laughing helps too, so see a comedy, watch funny things. That is part of the reason the Irish have a party when someone passes away. Helping others helps you loose sight of your own losses
Step Three:
Activily work to feel better. Act happy and smile. Even if you don't feel that way, it should start to make you feel that way. Life will be better.If you love something...let it go, if it comes back to you it was truly meant to be.
When one door of happiness closes, another opens: but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.
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