HONESTLY........IT SURE MAKES SENSE

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends" A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.


Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.


LET THERE ALWAYS BE MUSIC IN YOUR LIFE...
LATE Dickran Bezirgenian

"True love doesn't consist of holding hands - it consists of holding hearts".

Salam
"Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later" so true , but it's hard to remember esp when they pretend they r cute and inncoent lol

"Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right." I don't quite agree with this one , a relationship that isn't intended to a final union , is not a relation , maybe in a western culture it's fine , problem is our religion doesn't allow it . but I agree it can be fun if it was'nt forbidden , isn't that the case with all the forbiden stuff lol
"Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted" if we stick aroud sudanese me would say " de shno al '3a9ab al elahy de , ma ta7ely 3an washy" and if we don't they will say " 7ayma 3ala 7aly sha3raha" it's hard one as they tend to be possesive.

"Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job" good point , but if I don't the society always does if not his MOTHER!
This post may make me sound as a man basher or sexist which am not , but I believe they are bunch of good advices some aren't applicable in our culture and some aren't , but I unfortunately alot of young youth today are westernized by the media or lack of wise parenting so I guess it works for all
Thank you Sudania
with respect
Rawan