(((THE HEALING OF A BROKEN HEART)))

Can't Let Go" (performed by mariah carey)

There you are
Holding her hand
I am lost
Dying to understand
Didn't I
Cherish you right
Don't you know
You were my life

[Chorus:]
Even though I try
I can't let go
Something in your eyes
Captured my soul
And every night
I see you in my dreams
You're all I know
I can't let go

Just cast aside
You don't even know I'm alive
You just walk on by
Don't care to see me cry
And here I am
Still holding on
I can't accept
My world is gone

[Chorus]

Do you even realize
The sorrow I have inside
Everyday of my life
Do you know the way it feels
When all you have just dies
I try and try
To deny that I need you
But still you remain on my mind

[Chorus]

No I just can't get you out of my mind
I never can say goodbye
'Cause every night
I see you in my dreams
You're all I know
I can't let you go
Even though I try
I can't let go of something that I need so badly
You're all I know
I can't let go


(((THE HEALING OF A BROKEN HEART)))

Step One:

Allow yourself time to heal, and know that you can heal. Whether the loss is due to death, rejection, or other reason.
It is normal to grieve over a loss of a love for any reason.
It usually takes two to three years for a couple whose relationship has broken up to begin to put their lives back together again. It sometimes takes five years for individuals and families to get over the emotional pain and trauma. Many people can have serious health and emotional problems during this time.

Step Two:

Realize that you still can find happiness.
Realize that you can control how you think, what you think about, and how much.
A key is to concentrate on the positives you have in the present. Not thinking about the future or past.
Healing Helpers

Being around people and getting involved in helping others is a good way to accelerate the proces of healing.
Laughing helps too, so see a comedy, watch funny things. That is part of the reason the Irish have a party when someone passes away.
Helping others helps you loose sight of your own losses


Step Three:

Activily work to feel better.
Act happy and smile. Even if you don't feel that way, it should start to make you feel that way.
Life will be better.If you love something...let it go, if it comes back to you it was truly meant to be.


When one door of happiness closes, another opens:
but often we look so long at the closed door
that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.

Asal2:

I am so amazed of what I have read here, this is really a wonderful heal for some one who lost valuable thing in life, and a good lesson for us all which we better pick up and hold in our concious as a fantastic weapon for hard time during the ages.

Asal2:
Thanks a lot dear for that nice topic.

thank you dear I appreciate that and I hope more and more heartbroken people to read this and to go on with their lives and realize that when one door closes another opens but sometimes we look at that closed door too much and we forget that another has open!


god bless u all!

Dear ,
Keep on it , and all of us with u ,its from the nice topics i have seen
All the best to u
Allah yideeki al 3afiya

Thats lovely .........thanx alot.

thank you all god bless u!

Would you dance if ask you to dance?
Or would you run and never look back?
Would you cry if you saw me crying?
And would you save my soul tonite?
Would you tremble if I touch your lips?
Or would you laugh? Oh please tell me this
Would you die now for the one you love?
Oh hold me in your arms tonite?
I can be your Hero baby
I can kiss away the pain
I will stand by you forever
You can take my breath away
Would you swear that you’ll always be mine
Or would you lie? Would you run and hide?
Am in too deep? Have I lost my mind ?
I don’t care .You’re here tonite?
I can be your Hero baby
I can kiss away the pain
I will stand by you forever
You can take my breath away