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 To my dear father on the anniversary of your loss
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To my dear father:
It occurred to me ,yesterday, 7/27/05, that it has
been exactly 1 year since I had seen you, just a few
days before your final departure on 8/2/04........I
still remember that last day at the airport when I
hugged you and looked at you from a distance long
after we had parted thinking this is probably the last
time I will see you....and quickly shrugging off that
feeling away......only to realize it was very real
It has been a very difficult year my father....full of
challenges and surprises...some expected....and some
truly unexpected......Not long after your death, we
fell into that spiral of events that has now become
commonplace in Sudan...the harsh realities of living
without a father....that dark lonely feeling of being
orphaned....We were thrust into the maze of family law
and litigation ...and rights and wrongs....and oh how
wise you were my dear father........It seems "Adam and
Eve and the apple"....are still amongst us.....but you
already knew that.....I was reminded by the scene you
enacted at the silver jubilee anniversary of Port
Sudan High Secondary School of Marc Anthony after he
realized the ultimate betrayel from Brutus....
I harbour no hatred ...just distrust....no bleeding
wounds...but a permanent scar
Our faith was tested...our spirits were wounded... We
were reminded daily of your loss.... But we
persevered....we remembered your words about inner
strength...you said we should always maintain a
reserve of inner strength that will strengthen us in
challenging times...As you wrote that cryptic message
in your daughters diary many years ago..."When the
going gets tough, the tough get going"
You always looked at adversity as " A Blessing in
disguise"......and we have now begin to reap those
blessings and understand that truly the scheme of
events is planned in such an intricate way...sometimes
we just have to let things happen
I realized my dear father although we miss you
deeply...we are happy for you....you have left this
world as you lived it with dignity, pride, and
majesty...never a burden... always the ultimate
caretaker...the leader...the fighter...the poet...the
scientist....the genuine truly unique person you were
who never forgot where he came from ....who truly new
where he was going...to a far better place
Thank you my father, on behalf of my mother and
siblings, for allowing us to realize our reserves of
inner strength....for instilling in us a deep love for
our home Sudan....for always reminding us that God has
a plan and it is always right....for loving our
children more than life itself
May you continue to rest in piece amongst the angels
in the heavens
Your loving daughter Always Hala
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Re: To my dear father on the anniversary of your loss (Re: WAD ELGAALI#4)
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Dear Halla,
With those mixed feelings of joy and sorrow I managed to feel your wounded spirit, your endless love to your dearest father. Joy, because you brought absence to presence and were able to spiritually whispering in his warm heart. Sorrow because I’ve felt the sadness and the emptiness of a life without a loving Father.
Dear Halla,
Please accept my deepest condolences and allow me to thank your father for passing his wisdom to us..."When the
going gets tough, the tough get going”
Abdulmagid
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 Re: To my dear father on the anniversary of your loss (Re: Hala Khojali)
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نسأل الله عز و جل الرحمة و المغفرة للوالد خوجلى عبدالرحيم ابوبكر
هو موجود بيننا بما ترك من ذرية صالحة و اعمال جارية
Quote: آللهم أرحمه وأسكنه فسيح جناتك
آللهم باعد بينه وبين خطاياه كما باعدت بين المشرق والمغرب
اللهم نقه من الخطايا والذنوب كما ينقى الثوب الأبيض من الدنس
اللهم اغسله بالثلج والماء والبرد
اللهم أبدله داراً خيراً من داره وأهلاً خيراً من أهله
اللهم اجمعنا وإياه في مستقر رحمتك
اللهم انا نسالك بأسمك الاعظم ان توسع مدخله
اللهم آنس في القبر وحشته
اللهم ثبته عند السؤال
اللهم لقنه حجته
اللهم باعد القبر عن جنباته
اللهم اكفه فتنة القبر
اللهم اكفه ضمة القبر
اللهم اجعل قبره روضة من رياض الجنة ولا تجعله حفرة من حفر النار
اللهم إن كان محسنًا فزد في إحسانه، وإن كان مسيئًا فتجاوز عن سيئاته
اللهم ألحقه بالشهداء
اللهم اجعل هذا اليوم أسعد أيامه
اللهم افتح عليه نافذة من الجنة00 واجعل قبره روضة من رياضها |
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Re: To my dear father on the anniversary of your loss (Re: Hala Khojali)
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الاخت العزيزة / هاله خوجلي
هالني خبر وفاة الوالد الغالي الدكتور / خوجلي اسكنه الله فسيح جناته ، و لقد تسنى لي قراءة مقالك في ذكراه السنوية ، فصممت أن اشترك في المنبر لنقل تعازي- و الشكر موصول للاخ بكري - و ليس ذلك فقط انما لتاكيد باني معك و تاكدي ان كلامي هذا ليس على سبيل المجاملة لاني اشعر بعمق ما كتبتي ، صدقيني ربما اختلفت الظروف و لكن المأساة مشتركة ، كل من عشنا معهم في الكويت نحس بأنهم اشقاؤنا و شقيقاتنا بالفعل ، لقد كنا جميعا اسرة واحدة بدون شك ، لقد مر كثير منا بمحن اختلف عمقها او لم يختلف لكن الاحساس بالاسى كان عميقا ...... لكن سنة الله في خلقه تبدل الاحوال من حال الى اخر ...... و ربما في كل حال عبرة و درس يقوي ايمانا بالله و يزيد منا صلابة و حبا لذوينا و اخواننا و مجتمعنا ..... دعينا اختي العزيزة النظر في ما جرى بانه قدر محتوم و ان البقاء لله ، و اعلم بانك انسانه قادرة على الاستفادة من المحن بشكل ايجابي .....زز تعازي للاسرة الكريمة و الاخ الفاضل مصطفى ....... قد تستغربي لماذا لم اسمع بالخبر ....... لاني منذ 1993 يونيو في سلطنة عمان - حضرت الى السودان مرة واحدة في 2000م .
اخوك دوما
الصادق محمد البوصيري
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WAD ELGAALI#4
عبدالماجد فرح يوسف
محمد الامين احمد
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Waly Eldin Elfakey
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تويتر
انستقرام
يوتيوب
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